From ‘the Interview’

Treat dating with the importance that it deserves. Treat it like a job interview if you are a man you are interviewing a potential wife and mother for your children. If you are a woman you are interviewing a potential husband and father for your children. And what did I say about the job of being a parent before.

During the date you should switch back and forth between interviewer and interviewee. And as with any interview you should prepare well in advance of the actual interview.

As the interviewer you should have prepared questions that you need the answers to. You should also be on high alert and observe intently. Do not only pay attention to how your date is treating you also watch how the they are treating the other people around you. A person who is impatient with or yells at the waitress will probably act that way with you also. Trust your instincts.

As the interviewee be honest. Answer the questions put to you honestly do not try to answer a question based upon what you think they want to hear. It only brings trouble later on.

Dating needs to be a meeting of the minds not just the heart. You need to fall in love in your head first then your heart followed by the rest of your body parts. Too often people progress in a different order and that almost always causes issues later on. Too many of us are looking for the fairy tale and real life is not a fairy tale. Or we are willing to accept certain things that we then determine we cannot accept over the long-haul. Often times these are things we notice or pick up on in our initial meeting of a person but are so over taken in by physical appearance or we hold the notion in our minds that this is something that will change.

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